Chuggy seek validate feelings.
Chuggy think relational social psychology attachment theory suit Chuggy needs.
Chuggy define Chuggy psychopathology as insecure anxious/preoccupation attachment pattern.
Eg, Why Snookums no want Chuggy?
Chuggy too fat?
Chuggy smoke too much?
Chuggy no worth love?
Chuggy cognizant Chuggy self doubt from Snookums threaten Chuggy positive mental model of attachment.
Why Snookums piss on Chuggy model?
Chuggy hard wired want attach.
Chuggy ancestors keen to sign of rejection.
If Chuggy ancestors rejected, no with group for hunt mastadon, ancestors die alone in cold.

Chuggy wonder, if Chuggy caveman, how Chuggy more evolved than Snookums?
Or average man for that matter?

Chuggy need move toward more integrative model.